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Make A Perfect First Impression On A Date

Lifestyle Oct 13, 2014

by Anokhi Admin

You Only Get One Chance To Make A First Impression

International etiquette expert Jacqueline Whitmore shares six tips to help you guarantee the best results the first time you meet that special someone.

Plan Ahead

It is an excellent way to appear calm, confident and composed. Brainstorm some interesting conversation topics.
Do your research. If you have any mutual friends ask about your date’s interests and hobbies. You should also research current events to appear knowledgeable and interesting; try to learn a little about a variety of topics. Nothing controversial though, refrain from topics such as politics and religion, until you get to know each other better.

Do Your Homework

Romance requires effort. To make the date flawless, research the location, venue, even the menu. Look for easy to eat foods that won’t ruin your nice outfit.

Remember, the person who does the inviting, does the paying. Give your credit card to the server before your date arrives or as the meal comes to your table. It’s best to take care of the check away from the table, if you want to appear savvy and sophisticated.

Be Punctual

Showing up on time shows you are responsible and respectful of your date’s time. Give yourself plenty of time to arrive at the restaurant and check the location. This is also an excellent opportunity to check your appearance in the restroom and gain composure.

Dress to Impress

Your appearance defines your personal brand. Appearance is an excellent opportunity to showcase your personality. Remember, it is important to appear put together. When you choose an outfit, think about you plan on going, and what you plan to do, for your date. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to look good. Instead, create a foundation for your wardrobe, with an investment in timeless pieces.

Greet Your Date Warmly

A firm handshake or a peck on the cheek is the most appropriate way to greet your date when first meeting. Remember to be warm, friendly, and sincere. Make eye contact and smile.
A handshake that is too firm or too weak may give off a negative impression. If you’re seated when your date arrives, stand up and say hello. Standing shows respect for the other person, and for yourself.

Be an Attentive Listener

Don’t talk about yourself. Be fully engaged, listen and ask relevant questions.

Never interrupt or finish your date’s sentences. You don’t want to appear rude or in a hurry. Don’t talk with your mouth full of food, and don’t text or talk on your cell phone. Give your date your undivided attention. Attentive listening builds trust, establishes rapport, leaves a great first impression, and almost always guarantees a second date.

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